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takrupp · 11-13-2003, 05:47 AM

Hey man,
At the very least you two should take some time off. Maybe after all your work is done, you and the guys should go out and maybe talk a little bit, get some support from your friends. I was in a great relationship once that just turned cold after about a year: she changed, I changed and we stuck through it for 3 more agonizing months until we decided it was over. The silver lining is, about 6 months later we were best friends (honestly!) and still are. I'm not sure if that same thing would happen to you, but there are definitely more girls out there man, you're young and you shouldn't be tied down in a bad situation. I know in the future, whenever I see those signs again (similar to yours), it will be a tough decision made in about 30 seconds. Its not pretty, but sometimes its just over; you know its over, but it sometimes takes awhile to KNOW its over.
Trent

11-13-2003, 05:47 AM	#27 (permalink)
takrupp Upright	Hey man, At the very least you two should take some time off. Maybe after all your work is done, you and the guys should go out and maybe talk a little bit, get some support from your friends. I was in a great relationship once that just turned cold after about a year: she changed, I changed and we stuck through it for 3 more agonizing months until we decided it was over. The silver lining is, about 6 months later we were best friends (honestly!) and still are. I'm not sure if that same thing would happen to you, but there are definitely more girls out there man, you're young and you shouldn't be tied down in a bad situation. I know in the future, whenever I see those signs again (similar to yours), it will be a tough decision made in about 30 seconds. Its not pretty, but sometimes its just over; you know its over, but it sometimes takes awhile to KNOW its over. Trent Last edited by takrupp; 11-13-2003 at 05:50 AM..