i'm not married, nor have been, so take this with a grain of salt.....
i think it should be done two ways.
first off, both people need to sit down frequently with their checks and balances. they need to see what bills there are and how much money they both have. they need to pay the bills, then figure out what they _need_ next.
after that I think they should kind of do as they will with their dough.
all important shit taken care of, as a couple, then semi-resume your private funds.
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