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Hey Doritio- I am the girl that jay-g mentioned above. One day, I too began acting like your girl, and acted different with jay-g and felt as though my feelings werent as strong, and that somehow things between us had changed. I was suddenly so confused, and I tried to push him away...but I can honestly say that the way he dealt with it, is the reason we are still together. He was very supportive and tried to figure out exactly how I was feeling (like you plan to ask your girl). Although it was hard to answer some of the things because I was so unsure myself..it did help us both. I really dont know your girlfriends intents, and I will not try and justify her behavior as "normal" or "fair" but I will say that it has happened to others, and people do get confused. Perhaps in your case she wants to, or will be moving on. All's I can advise you would be to possibly sit her down and ask her exactly how she feels (as you mentioned you would) and then maybe give her some space to figure her thoughts out. I wish you the best of luck....and I sincerely hope everything works out for the two of you.
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