Like you and others said, it might just be stress. Stress can lead to depression, and depression can make people act very wierd.
Over all, the best thing to do would be to talk to her about it, tell her how YOU feel about it all. You cant just shutup and hope it will go away, it wont. I can relate to a few of the things happening to you, and I know how you feel. But dont stall on this. Tell her whats up. Have her fill you in. The MOST important part of a relationship is communication. If you two can get through this, it will only make you stronger. It might be over tho.
If I was in your situation, Id talk to her about it. You have to be strong about this, things can go from "strange" to "fucking horrible" within five minutes of conversation, but you need to accept that. Dont wait another week. Talk to her about it now, and ask her if she wants to stay with you. If she does, let her know your there for her, and help her, at least help her find help. Theres obviously something wrong somewhere, and the first step to fixing the problem is finding out what it is.
Good luck duder. I hope things will turn out fine.
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