I try to wait until I have a pretty good feeling for what the other person is like, what their intentions are, are they truly interested, am I truly interested in them?
There are a few factors involved. I don't have a certain time frame that I restrain myself to. I think if I did, I would spend most of the time thinking about the "big day" and spend enough time thinking about the real issue at hand, which for me is compatibility.
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It's best not to be too moral...you cheat yourself out of too much life. - Maude, Harold and Maude.
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