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Originally posted by em1014
... I think it just took us extra time to become comfortable with ourselves and the relationship we were in. ... The best piece of advice I can give you is to not give up and make sure to talk with your lover. Communication is the key to most things in life.
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sound advise.
and, with the abuse issue, i *do* hope you have been and perhaps still are in therapy for that (depending on your age and place in the healing process and whatever..)
i think therein lies your answer, and it's within you somewhere.
i cannot give any better advise, as i've never been in such a situation, but i wish you the best, and we're here for you
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