*sigh* <i>Here we go.</i>
Motdakasha is a champion. She fuckin rocks.
Just because a woman is dressed in what YOU consider to be a "whore uniform", doesn't mean they want YOUR penis, or ANY penis. Note to all the real men out there- guys who use the term "whore uniform" and think that girls who dress a certain way are looking for certain things are guaranteed to be dicks for the rest of their time on this planet, so I would shy away from this mentality.
What you perceive as rude is the girl's reaction the last 800 guys to come and hit on them blindy, with that "i'm desperate and only looking for pussy" look on their face. Despite what you may think, a girl can look at a guy and read your horniness and desperation in 2 seconds flat. When they look at you and can immediately tell you're being totally disingenuous with your approach, the "walking hardon" alert goes off and they rather quickly deny you.
Yes, quite dressing like a damn teenager. If you look like a "typical teenager", then you don't stand out- you're just another penis looking to get off, and that's not what they all want.
Much like YOU go to the bar to socialize, so do girls- and note that socialize does not mean "get hit on by everything male in the room". If she's there to meet guys, it will be fairly apparent by their body language. Blindly walking up to girls with that goofy desperation on your face will most definitely turn them away. And don't say it's not there- by the way you talk, it's plastered on your face. I'm not digging on you, I'm just informing you on how to change your perspective.
Your attitude needs to be more "I don't care if I fuck you". Just be laid-back. Being overanxious is obvious, and not appreciated.
Why do so many guys assume that clothes and shoes and hair and halfway-decent looks will get you all the way? Your character is the biggest thing about you.
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