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Personally I respect people who wait, and people who do not.
What my $.02 is on this topic is how important it is for couples to at least communicate on this topic before hand. And serious communications.
Any couple getting married should have a good idea of each others sexual limits and interests before they hold the wedding.
This goes for couples who do not wait as well. They should be aware of each others expecatations for the marital sex life.
(forgive my reference coming up)
Thur. I was off work and caught part of Dr. Phil on TV. The topic was mismatched sexual desires in marraige. There was one couple on where the woman had done oral sex while dating, but as soon as she was married she refused to any more.
She actually said on tv that was the reason the bride was smiling, cause she had given her last blowjob. (I know it's an old joke) I thought this was just a joke however. I did not realize it might actually be true for some women.
This couple should have discussed before the wedding.
"Hey honey once we get married, no more BJ OK ?"
Each couple should be free to negotiate their own marital sex lives, but it should be a topic before the wedding.
My input FWIW.
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