motdakasha

Man nothing compares to the first post and vveronica's is damn amusing.

The most painful thing I've experienced isn't really an accident. This guy I dated briefly was a virgin before I met him. So, he had no idea what to do. The first time was kind of okay because we kissed and stuff before we had sex. Then the second time was kinda painful because it seemed as though he thought he could just insert-penis-here without lube or foreplay or anything.

So, I try to correct the situation by giving him a bunch of links with information on foreplay and things to do or try. Every now and then he messages me with commentary on the guides, so obviously he's reading the stuff. And I tell him, hey look, I need some foreplay or at the very least some lube because you're hurting me here. I think to myself, ok, things should be better now.. sounds like he understands the concept.

Then when we go at it again, he attempts foreplay. Here's his idea of foreplay: on his first attempt of trying to finger me, he didn't try to get between the labia before pushing. so, there was resistance (from my skin), his reaction was to just push harder instead of figure out where the actual entrance was. in essence, he tried to pierce through my skin to find the hole... and he had long sharp nails. so i'm on the verge of screaming in pain, and i tell him he can't just pierce through my skin to get where he wants. anyways, he sticks a finger in once, then pulls it out. sticks the tongue in once, then pulls it out. TADA HE'S DONE. time for him to insert penis.
Aftermath: He rips open the entrance of my vagina from attempting to have sex with me. The looseish skin near the taint on the inside. It healed with scar tissue and was around for months, but I think it's finally gone now.

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