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After experiences with a few really long term live-together relationships, I thought I knew what marriage was all about...or at thought I had a pretty good idea.
But marriage changes everything.
I don't know exactly how to describe it, but that little piece of paper does make a difference.
Of course, there are the legal issues, but there's also a more subtle societal acceptance you encounter. As if your relationship is now "legit" in the community's eyes. It's weird.
As for the wedding itself, you don't have to spend a fortune...my wife and I got married on a tall ship in Key West, wearing Hawaiian shirts and All-Stars, and it was great!
Don't delude yourself, though...even if you don't go for the formal hoopla, there's no such thing as a stress-free wedding.
It's worth it, though, in my opinion.
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