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Originally posted by jvwgtr
One of the best ways to ruin sex is to focus entirely on the orgasm. I know you sincerely just want to please her fully, but you'll get so much more out of the experience if you stop thinking of the Big O as the reason for sex.
It's the connection, the pleasure of the extreme intimacy that is the whole purpose.
Try to enjoy the experience as a whole, and not worry about the finish.
Whether or not you guys reach climax together, separately, or not at all, you'll both finish happy.
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Hear hear!!!
Sometimes people treat sex like playing two slot-machines facing each other. Like it's a waste of time unless you have a simultaneous jackpot. This sort of "Big Bang Theory" cheapens the whole thing and brings stress, anxiety and worry where there should only be intimacy and passion.
Sex is a physical, emotional, spiritual experience. It ain't about the orgasm.