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This is probably one of two things.
The first could be medical or a situation you are in. First are you on any medication that might be causing it. It could also be a tough work situation or something stressful in your life. I felt less sexual when I was working on my MBA since I was gone a couple of nights a week and work was stressful. Are you feeling good about yourself (weight, health, etc.)? Sometimes if you are feeling bad about yourself it can cause you to feel non-sexual.
The second could be the relationship. Are you spending enough one-on-one time with your wife. My wife and I went through something similar a couple of years ago when we were both busy with our own stuff. We spent time together, but it wasn't what I would call quality time. We weren't spending the time talking together, and consequently it made sex seem a bit like a job rather than just fun. When we spend the time to really talk to each other (at least an hour every day), it makes things go so much better in terms of both the relationship and our sexual appetite for each other.
These things ebb and flow. You are right to be a bit concerned but the good part is there are ways to fix it whatever it is.
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