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phunktastic · 11-08-2003, 07:55 AM

Hopefully I don't make this too long

Theres a girl at work that I've taken a liking to latley. She's "had a crush" on me for awhile apparently.. according to other people who talk to me about it and joke around about it around us. She flirts with me a lot and talks to me, and I ended up getting her phone number, but heres the problem.. she never calls back!

Twice now she's had to go and said "hey I'll call you tomorrow sometime" and then just never called back. It doesn't make sense because when I see her she seems to like me, but why wouldn't she call back then?

I don't want to seem obsessed and start calling her all time time saying "why didn't you call me?!" Some of my friends suggested not calling for a while to give her a taste of her own medicine, but I'm not sure if thats a good idea, she might lose interest.

Anyway, we don't work together any more so the only way I'll see her until next spring is to go on a date with her. From what I've thought about and advice my friends have given me, I've got three options.. Call today (last time I called was Wednesday when she said she'd call me back) and see if she wants to watch the lunar eclipse with me,, wait for a week or two and then try calling and see if she wants to do something, that way I won't seem desperate. Or just don't call back, if she's interested she'll eventually call me back, or I can wait till the spring and try to start over again.

I just thought I'd get a second (or I guess 10th,11th,12th, etc... lol) opinion on the matter from the people here who have helped me out before.

btw, if you remember my thread about high school junior college freshman, this is the same girl.. I just couldn't help it!

11-08-2003, 07:55 AM	#1 (permalink)
phunktastic Insane Location: Dayton, Ohio	girl advice Hopefully I don't make this too long Theres a girl at work that I've taken a liking to latley. She's "had a crush" on me for awhile apparently.. according to other people who talk to me about it and joke around about it around us. She flirts with me a lot and talks to me, and I ended up getting her phone number, but heres the problem.. she never calls back! Twice now she's had to go and said "hey I'll call you tomorrow sometime" and then just never called back. It doesn't make sense because when I see her she seems to like me, but why wouldn't she call back then? I don't want to seem obsessed and start calling her all time time saying "why didn't you call me?!" Some of my friends suggested not calling for a while to give her a taste of her own medicine, but I'm not sure if thats a good idea, she might lose interest. Anyway, we don't work together any more so the only way I'll see her until next spring is to go on a date with her. From what I've thought about and advice my friends have given me, I've got three options.. Call today (last time I called was Wednesday when she said she'd call me back) and see if she wants to watch the lunar eclipse with me,, wait for a week or two and then try calling and see if she wants to do something, that way I won't seem desperate. Or just don't call back, if she's interested she'll eventually call me back, or I can wait till the spring and try to start over again. I just thought I'd get a second (or I guess 10th,11th,12th, etc... lol) opinion on the matter from the people here who have helped me out before. btw, if you remember my thread about high school junior college freshman, this is the same girl.. I just couldn't help it! __________________ "Relax, the world will spin beside itself and suck you in. With threats and hopes beyond compare"