This might seem like an oversimplification for the sake of a terse saying, but I've always felt that the best revenge is leading a successful and enjoyable life (which does not include focusing your energy on the offending party).
Sun Tzu, you probably acknowledge it now, but your energy could've been much better spent. Dealing with people like that outside the law is just more trouble than it's worth. And for some trivia: that goofball Tom Arnold actually did something very similar to what you did except the man in question really molested him. That doesn't bother me so much because he sincerely wanted to protect the children in the community of his hometown and could do nothing legally because of the statute of limitations.
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