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I feel that revenge is usually pointless. I prefer confrontation. In your situation, it may have been wiser to actually talk to the guy.
As for violence never solving anything - in some occasions it actually does. But you have to make damn sure it is the last resort until you take that step. And not for the sake of revenge.
Sun Tzu - as for what you did, I don't see how it would help your lady friend. This whole ordeal was about her in the first place, right?
Your objective should have been to get him off her back from day one. Trying to hurt the guy because HE pissed YOU off, doesn't really make sense.
I'm not saying I would have been more mature about it, but I definetely wouldn't have done it the way you did it.
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