Looks aren't everything... but they are part of the package. I'm definitely not the best looking guy in almost any room (expect maybe a Zoo) however confidence and humor are more my stronger points so certainly some girls like a guy like myself who is "fun to be around" etc. Others go more for money ( see
http://www.kimble.org/ for proof particularly
http://www.kimble.org/carib2000/ and
http://www.kimble.org/eire2000/). It varies depending on the woman they all have their own 'criteria' as do guys. Some 'attractive girls' I know simply get sick of their equally high maintenance egotistical chauvinistic boyfriends and trade them in for a more caring and sharing model.