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It might be an O or it might not. I know many, many women who don't have orgasms until their mid to late 20s just due to them not knowing much about their bodies and the guys knowing even less. The suggestions here are good. No doubt she is probably enjoying it (or at least the signs are pretty good), but only she knows if she is orgasming. I have also known women who have orgasms who didn't know what it was and only discovered it later when it was described to them by other women. Conversation about what she likes about a certain thing is key here. Some people think it takes away from the sexual mood to talk about what they like during it, but the rewards are so great that it is something you need to do. My wife would get orgasms from time to time during the first 8 or 9 years of my marriage, but she didn't think she "deserved" them every single time (which is just ludicrous). She could orgasm every single time through masturbating. I finally convinced her to show me, and now she gets off every single time because we make it a priority.
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