i didnt come out of my shell until i left my long term girlfriend, that was about 24.
it was weird, i thought i was dull, unattractive and a bit of a social leper. as soon as i got a bit of confidence, that all changed. i'm happy being the way i am now!
the more you stress about it the worse it gets. just be yourself and everything will be cool.
Anti fishstick, you nailed it right on the head with this comment:
"we are not the sum of our past experiences. this is not who you are today. but rather, what made you who you are."
so true....
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