My nephew just experienced this recently.
He was one school year higher than his girl friend.
So when they kept going out when he was in college, and she was in high school; they seem to always get along fine.
They also had a lot of time going out or spending it the family or family pets!
however, when the girl just got into college this year (a different one, cullinaryschool actually), she somehow started to ignore him, until basically there was no contact.
Dunno if she found another guy; but i wouldn't rule out the idea that meeting a lot of different people in college made her relationship 'dull' or less interesting.
There may not necessarily be another guy, but she may simply have more fun with her new gang.
My advice to my nephew... even if he still loves her a lot...
Keep that feeling, but don't dwell on it.
It's her loss she gave up a guy who's serious about her; and he could go around and find another 'more deserving' girl anyway...
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