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Harshaw · 11-02-2003, 10:24 PM

This is something that I have seen a lot lately. Not just happening to me, but a few other people I know, and well, I need to rant. This is a lot of pent up anger that needs to be vented in one place or another.
Ok, we all know breaking up is really painful and hard and no one likes to do it. The person doing the breaking probably doesn’t want to do the breaking and the person getting broken-up on sure as hell doesn’t want that to happen. But for everyone’s sanity, if you are the party that wants out… don’t beat around the damn bush; break up, quick like a band-aid. I don’t care if you find the act distasteful, or you don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings, you have a duty. Don’t wuss out, don’t act all distant and hope the other person “gets it”. Fucking break it off already. Hopefully you had feelings for this person at some point or another, the decent thing to do it crush them quick instead of dragging it out for weeks or even months. Sure the breakee should hopefully have enough backbone to know what is going on and get out, but I can tell you, with many people that isn’t going to happen. For the sanity of the person you once called “special” just do it already.

Your's Truly

Dumped

11-02-2003, 10:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	A Letter from the dumped This is something that I have seen a lot lately. Not just happening to me, but a few other people I know, and well, I need to rant. This is a lot of pent up anger that needs to be vented in one place or another. Ok, we all know breaking up is really painful and hard and no one likes to do it. The person doing the breaking probably doesn’t want to do the breaking and the person getting broken-up on sure as hell doesn’t want that to happen. But for everyone’s sanity, if you are the party that wants out… don’t beat around the damn bush; break up, quick like a band-aid. I don’t care if you find the act distasteful, or you don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings, you have a duty. Don’t wuss out, don’t act all distant and hope the other person “gets it”. Fucking break it off already. Hopefully you had feelings for this person at some point or another, the decent thing to do it crush them quick instead of dragging it out for weeks or even months. Sure the breakee should hopefully have enough backbone to know what is going on and get out, but I can tell you, with many people that isn’t going to happen. For the sanity of the person you once called “special” just do it already. Your's Truly Dumped __________________ This too shall pass.