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astyles · 11-02-2003, 10:17 PM

Plan9 & All, (prepare for a long post!)

Class is in session baby! I have just read this entire thread and am very excited about what I have read. I have recently started to improve on myself physically and now want to move onto the mental game. I ask for you to please continue this thread- this stuff is gold. I have read what you have written about confidence and simply approaching women and would like to start PUA tactics! I am a decent looking guy- I just don't have the confidence that I should because I have been 'out of the game'. I'm going to shuttup about how I am and put forth a few examples and perhaps everyone that has read this thread can dissect and comment.

Situation #1: The Bank Chick

About a week ago I started going to the bank to take out cash at the drive-thru because I lost my checks and my bank card. One this glorious day I filled out my bank slip like I usually do, put my stuff in the lil box and look up at the teller to see a very attractive woman beaming a huge smile say "Hi" in what I took as a 'more than friendly' tone. I thought she just might be really friendly or had just gotten laid for lunch or something- but to my great surprise she starts giggling to her co-workers and basically pointing at me sitting there talking to my friend on my cell phone at the drive-thru. I tried to play it cool and I started telling my friend on the phone that the hottie at the drive-thru was calling me out. I guess she was listening because she just kept looking up from what she was doing and smiling the whole time I was sitting there.

(what goes through my head)
Ok, so in my mind I don't think that you can pick up chicks at their jobs. I have heard that it is a very bad idea because not only can it get them in trouble but that many guy's hit on them /day at places like this. Plus I haven't asked a girl out in a loooong time.
(end thoughts back to the drive-thru)

Ok so she does her business with my money and then very unprofessionally leans up with her hands on the counter as if to poke out her boobies and asks "Anything else". I don't remember exactly what I said in my state of panic but I believe it was something like "that'll do for now" or something not too idiotic because she was smiling when I drove off. I gave her a smile and drove away as ALL of the hot chicks at the window smiled at me as I drove by. SCORE!

I felt pretty good leaving the bank but at the same time I felt like a cracker because I didn't get her number right there and then. Interested in her I returned to the bank the very next day, this is where I fack up the first time.

I pull up to the VERRRRY front lane where I hope to get a better look at this Bank Chick who I think digs me. Lo and behold she is RIGHT FRIGGIN THERE. So I ask her- "Are you the one who helped me yesterday who wore the pink shirt" She says, "Yes, that was me" and smiles really big. I say "You know I spent all my money yesterday just so I could come back here and see that smile" OWNAGE! She dug that and went "Awww". After this I got really embarassed over what I have done. I don't know why but instead of making chit-chat to get more comfortable with talking to her I just kind of sat there and smiled like an idiot. I looked confused about what to do- and she noticed it. This is where the major fack up comes. After doing so well thus far, I write my number down on a peice of paper after she tells me bye again (I think I should have just drove off this time and left her wondering in mystery for awhile)- and I tell her that it's cool to call me. WANKER! Yuh- I think that was stuipd, she hasn't called me and I'm not surprised.

This confuses me because I have been back to the bank 2 other times (I spend alot of cash heh), and the next time I didnt even pay attention to her and I guess she thought I was pissed so she wrote me a note with the bank stuff I got back "Here is some Sugar to cheer you up" it was signed: "the drive-thru girls". On my next visit she sent me a note "Hi hottie, love your smile". I know she has my number, why doesn't she call? I don't think I am going to go back to this bank for awhile to ensure at least that she doesn't think I am stalking her at her job- moreover, until I hear what all you pplz think abouts this. Please let me know. Do you think that she is playing a game with me, do you think she is too shy- what should i do!?

Take into account I have read straight through this thread and AM going to go back and takes notes and feel like I can improve my game alot by what I have already read but I am hungry as a mofo to hear what you peeps- especially plan9 has to say. Keep it postin!

I've got more where that comes from if examples are good. I've gotten a chance at 3 girls this week after I died my hair at a very expensive place and started wearing perry ellis to compliment my efforts at working out fairly hard. I have not gone through with either 3 for reasons I myself don't even understand even though I am right there.

Neways- peace and I will check back.

11-02-2003, 10:17 PM	#104 (permalink)
astyles Upright Location: Tulsa	Plan9 & All, (prepare for a long post!) Class is in session baby! I have just read this entire thread and am very excited about what I have read. I have recently started to improve on myself physically and now want to move onto the mental game. I ask for you to please continue this thread- this stuff is gold. I have read what you have written about confidence and simply approaching women and would like to start PUA tactics! I am a decent looking guy- I just don't have the confidence that I should because I have been 'out of the game'. I'm going to shuttup about how I am and put forth a few examples and perhaps everyone that has read this thread can dissect and comment. Situation #1: The Bank Chick About a week ago I started going to the bank to take out cash at the drive-thru because I lost my checks and my bank card. One this glorious day I filled out my bank slip like I usually do, put my stuff in the lil box and look up at the teller to see a very attractive woman beaming a huge smile say "Hi" in what I took as a 'more than friendly' tone. I thought she just might be really friendly or had just gotten laid for lunch or something- but to my great surprise she starts giggling to her co-workers and basically pointing at me sitting there talking to my friend on my cell phone at the drive-thru. I tried to play it cool and I started telling my friend on the phone that the hottie at the drive-thru was calling me out. I guess she was listening because she just kept looking up from what she was doing and smiling the whole time I was sitting there. (what goes through my head) Ok, so in my mind I don't think that you can pick up chicks at their jobs. I have heard that it is a very bad idea because not only can it get them in trouble but that many guy's hit on them /day at places like this. Plus I haven't asked a girl out in a loooong time. (end thoughts back to the drive-thru) Ok so she does her business with my money and then very unprofessionally leans up with her hands on the counter as if to poke out her boobies and asks "Anything else". I don't remember exactly what I said in my state of panic but I believe it was something like "that'll do for now" or something not too idiotic because she was smiling when I drove off. I gave her a smile and drove away as ALL of the hot chicks at the window smiled at me as I drove by. SCORE! I felt pretty good leaving the bank but at the same time I felt like a cracker because I didn't get her number right there and then. Interested in her I returned to the bank the very next day, this is where I fack up the first time. I pull up to the VERRRRY front lane where I hope to get a better look at this Bank Chick who I think digs me. Lo and behold she is RIGHT FRIGGIN THERE. So I ask her- "Are you the one who helped me yesterday who wore the pink shirt" She says, "Yes, that was me" and smiles really big. I say "You know I spent all my money yesterday just so I could come back here and see that smile" OWNAGE! She dug that and went "Awww". After this I got really embarassed over what I have done. I don't know why but instead of making chit-chat to get more comfortable with talking to her I just kind of sat there and smiled like an idiot. I looked confused about what to do- and she noticed it. This is where the major fack up comes. After doing so well thus far, I write my number down on a peice of paper after she tells me bye again (I think I should have just drove off this time and left her wondering in mystery for awhile)- and I tell her that it's cool to call me. WANKER! Yuh- I think that was stuipd, she hasn't called me and I'm not surprised. This confuses me because I have been back to the bank 2 other times (I spend alot of cash heh), and the next time I didnt even pay attention to her and I guess she thought I was pissed so she wrote me a note with the bank stuff I got back "Here is some Sugar to cheer you up" it was signed: "the drive-thru girls". On my next visit she sent me a note "Hi hottie, love your smile". I know she has my number, why doesn't she call? I don't think I am going to go back to this bank for awhile to ensure at least that she doesn't think I am stalking her at her job- moreover, until I hear what all you pplz think abouts this. Please let me know. Do you think that she is playing a game with me, do you think she is too shy- what should i do!? Take into account I have read straight through this thread and AM going to go back and takes notes and feel like I can improve my game alot by what I have already read but I am hungry as a mofo to hear what you peeps- especially plan9 has to say. Keep it postin! I've got more where that comes from if examples are good. I've gotten a chance at 3 girls this week after I died my hair at a very expensive place and started wearing perry ellis to compliment my efforts at working out fairly hard. I have not gone through with either 3 for reasons I myself don't even understand even though I am right there. Neways- peace and I will check back. __________________ ---------------------------------- All time worst pick-up line: "You know, for a fat chick you don't sweat that much" - lol