If I weren't married I'd definately do it. I've got my own girl. A child would be a "distraction" but I think it would help to build the relationship on a different level. There would probably be less physical and more emotional/mental. While that would be harder to maintain it would be more sure of lasting if you made it to the alter with the person. I think dating someone with a kid would just give you more to talk about and do. You could take the kid places to have "family" fun. I think it would be awesome. Having kids around allows adults to listen more to their inner child.
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