nightshade000

I don't at all think you should sleep with her if you're not ready for sex in general. I also don't think you would be 'getting revenge' if yo break up with her. I'm sorry if I gave that impression at all. I think you should break up with her because she treats you like you're nothing. She may not be doing that intentionaly, but you're definately letting her walk on you. She cheated on you, and at least, my impression is, that you seem to be trying to take some of the blame. Why would you try to make it easier for her? I don't belive that cheating EVER 'just happens'. I belive people make mistakes, and that you might be able to recover from cheating. But it never 'just happens' ... It just shows lack of responcability and lack of respect for you. The fact that she cuts herself just, imho, is just a sign that she's got a whole lot of baggage and at your age of 19, you can find someone just as beautiful, just as smart, and with a whole lot less issues. Personaly, I don't belive anyone should get married before they're 25 because they havn't lived/experienced enough to really know what they wany. That could be extended to 'no reason to seriously be commited to someone before 20'. That's just my opinion though, so take it for what it's worth to you