I have a hard time conforming to any rule that is not explained, e.g. when someone says "you don't need to know why" I instantly lose any respect for the rule. You want rules in life followed make sure ppl understand why it's in place no matter how easy it is for some to understand. If one person asks why then they should be publicly informed as to the why and wherefore of the rule.
Plus ppl make mistakes and forget there are rules in certain situations and places and do something that is a faux pas. If it's a low consequence rule ppl won't pay attention to it like they do with beating someone's ass or murder, since these are serious consequence offenses.
Ppl are rebellious be nature, and don't like being told what to do , especially in absence of information and explanation or respect. If you tell someone "you don't need need to know" you alienate them and create conflict with them resulting in not being interested in respecting the rule since they were disrespected when inquiring about it. Same as being treated rudely in the commission of an error...If you break a rule under the premise of forgetfulness or error and someone busts your dick for it they are likely to disrespect the rule afterwards out of spite. What can you expect from such a flawed species as us?
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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