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Originally posted by Funnel
...what is this he is an overall loser and doesnt make as much money as me crap. Some people dont make alot of money, and experiment with drugs. That doesnt make them a loser. The fact that you even took the time to compare yourself to him and state that you dont envy him because he may be different a lesser being than you sounded pretty shady. It seems like a very very material statement. So all i can tell you is to trust her and reevaluate yourself.
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Originally posted by Scott
Funnel, from her dealing with her ex's "experiementing with drugs," she has two rather large scars on her left arm where she cut herself out of being furious with him and extremely sad at the same time. They're not exactly the best way to keep a relationship together.
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Very nice, Funnel, well represented.
Well, let me see, he's her age, right? So you're digging on a guy YOU DO NOT KNOW for being a carpenter's assistant at- what- 17? Holy shit, what kind of stellar high-paying job can a 17-year-old dropout have? I'm not one, but just because someone dropped out of high school doesn't make them a loser. How do you know he isn't training? You DO realize, I hope, that most skilled labor such as that requires some extensive apprenticeship- often without being paid much, if at all, before you can go out and do it for real for companies. Most plumbing companies, for exmaple, won't hire you as a real plumber without at least a few years of prior experience. Someone as smart and ambitious as you should be able to appreciate the concept of learning new things.
Also, just because she cut herself doesn't mean HE drove her to it. People cut themselves for many different reasons, but not because people "drive" them to it. They do it because they can't handle the situation they're in, or as a way to escape. Emotionally, they feel little or nothing, so they cut themselves to feel SOMETHING. You may be seeing this as a problem with him, but it's actually a problem with HER. Not saying that people who cut themselves always do it for bad reasons (I do it sometimes, and always for pleasurable reasons
, ladies... lol), or that they're all messed up, but you're placing blame incorrectly and it's skewing your perspective.
I know you've known her and had a puppy crush on her for a while, so therefore your eyes might be SLIGHTLY out of focus regarding her more... harsh... qualities.
Regardless of all of the above, however, infidelity is breakup rule #1 as far as I'm concerened, zero-tolerance. So, dump her, find someone better, and re-examine the way you perceive and judge that which you don't fully comprehend.
Best of luck.