you should read the flood from the vagina monologues. as you've heard here, it's not normal or abnormal. it happens to some though. i hear it happens to a lot of women at some time, just maybe not as frequently or maybe only with certain types of stimulation. as far as the having trouble orgasming with oral, would it be possible that you feel self concious, even on a subliminal level, and so you are holding back? just one possibility.
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