Of course you have those fantasies. I think most married guys do. I flirt with members of the opposite sex and then channel that sexual energy into my marriage. I have never given any woman any suggestion that I would be open to such a thing, however there is absolutely nothing wrong with harmless flirting. I think it would be the rare woman that would even try to separate you from a marriage that you are perfectly happy in as long as you make that clear. It is when you get ambiguous about your marriage and your happiness that different thoughts can creep in on both sides.
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