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This isn't untypical at that age. Like someone said, do Kegels. I have never found thinking about other things particularly good since I really want to enjoy the moment. Masturbating earlier in the day can help as well (particularly at this age). It all depends on the woman on whether lasting a long time is important or not. My wife is small, and it chafes her if we go too long (more than 10 minutes). She also doesn't get her best orgasms from intercourse. More often, she enjoys certain positions as it hits the G-spot, and then I finish her off afterwards. Sometimes I give her an orgasm ahead of time and then we do intercourse a couple of minutes later when she isn't so sensitive. You might find that if you talk to your girlfriend about what really feels good and what gives her orgasms, it might be quite different from what your expectations are. If you spend the time to really talk to her about what she likes, your foreplay technique will improve ten-fold, and you will automatically become one of the few guys that has ever been willing to do this for her. That works a whole bunch better than worrying about whether you are lasting long enough.
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