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Those are my kind of paragraphs, I write one-pagers all the time....
anyway - my friend, you are my namesake so I won't feed you false advice. She cheated after 3 weeks with someone else, I would think very hard before re-entering into a relationship with her again - if at all. I would save myself the stress and write off any relatioship with her - I would not take her back if she returned - you have no guarantee it wont happen again, becuase she's already proven that she can't be trusted.
If the ex does leave the area (at least 1000 miles, say) then maybe give things a shot again, but if she says "I love you" to her ex on the phone, you aren't really in a relationship with her.
Some girls are bad judges of character, and generally they also seem to be missing some common sense. Be very careful how you proceed, I can't emphasize that enough.
I'd stay just friends, there are other women out there, but it seems that your heart was in the right place. Give it time and don't infatuate yourself with one person - theres more than one woman in the world, so don't blind yourself to other possibilities.
Good luck.
scott
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