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		| Originally posted by Lunchbox7 Am I the only one who feels depressed that it doesnt matter who you are. It only matters what image you present.
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 actually this is only for finding someone in a public meeting place (bar, club, parking lot etc.). Well then ya, your image is important.  If you want to find a SO by way of friendship, chance,  mutual friends, or activity, then who you are will have more of a chance to come out.
In most places were it is ok to "make a pass at" someone, who we are is put aside until we get them on a date.  And then for most people that can take time, to fully show who they are.