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sillygirl · 10-29-2003, 06:22 PM

While some men look at porn "just cuz" (or whatever) some do become addicted. It's a serious problem that isn't spoken about too often, and they go through the same withdrawal symptoms as an alcoholic or druggie. It's worse because it's free. But it causes just as many problems.

I personally do not appreciate porn at all. I don't necessarily consider it "abominable", but I have no desire to watch other people having sex. I don't really have a problem with a SO watching it as long as it a) doesn't become a problem, and b) isn't hidden from me. The minute I find out that the fact that my SO is watching porn/looking at porn behind my back and hiding it from me is the minute that I feel insecure about it.

10-29-2003, 06:22 PM	#21 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	While some men look at porn "just cuz" (or whatever) some do become addicted. It's a serious problem that isn't spoken about too often, and they go through the same withdrawal symptoms as an alcoholic or druggie. It's worse because it's free. But it causes just as many problems. I personally do not appreciate porn at all. I don't necessarily consider it "abominable", but I have no desire to watch other people having sex. I don't really have a problem with a SO watching it as long as it a) doesn't become a problem, and b) isn't hidden from me. The minute I find out that the fact that my SO is watching porn/looking at porn behind my back and hiding it from me is the minute that I feel insecure about it. __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more... Last edited by sillygirl; 11-12-2003 at 07:30 AM..