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I don't know..... I mean, I started dating a guy when I was sixteen, he was nineteen. It was great for a while, but I never realized that my high school years were different than what they probably should have been. I didn't get to date anyone else, and I didn't really have too many friends after a while because (especially in high school), people stop hanging out with their friends so much once they get a steady boyfriend. I changed a lot, and still ended up marrying the guy right after my 18th birthday, even though he was totally unappreciative of those changes (but that's another story altogether...). Turned out to be absolute hell. I ended up wising up and asking for a divorce before we'd even been married a year. If you decide to continue dating her, just make sure that you give her room to grow, and pay attention to changes. Go where your heart leads you, and remember to keep communication open in both directions. If either of you ever feel that it isn't right, or that one of you needs something more or different, be sure to be honest and open enough with each other that you'll communicate it. *all based on my own experience, btw*
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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