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Originally posted by sexymama
Heck, I'm likely to point out a good looking woman to Lebell when we are out. I figure the porn he looks at is fantasy and I'm reality. As long as reality is fun and good, the fantasy is no threat, just an enhancer!
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Same here. We scope out other women all the time. It helps that I'm bi. I used to have a problem with it. Partly because he wasn't giving me enough attention - practically ignoring me - and even told me at the time he didn't love me. Now he makes sure I know he loves me and pay me more attention. Also I've learned that it really gets him excited when I look at it with him. A great way to get his attention I think. I mean what guy when he's looking at porn and sees his girl there naked or in sexy lingere (sp?) and playing with herself while looking at the porn too can he resist not wanting to touch and play with the real thing right there? Now if he completely ignored me then - THEN I might have a problem with it but it wouldn't be with the porn - it would be with him.
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