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oh, and yes, I have tried talking to her about it. thats when she backs away even more and starts saying things like "i dont think i can give you what you need" and says she feels inadequate.
the way i see it is she knows that i need a bit more attention, but she still doesn't give it to me. its almost like her attitude is: "i'll do what i want, noone is going to tell me what to do". i have asked her if sometimes she plays games with me, but she says not intentionally, and not on purpose. i believe her, but i still think she is doing it sub-consiously (spelling?).
i dont know. i just need to be strong and give her the space she needs i guess. everything else about the relationship is just awesome, and more than makes up for the lack of attention. i just have to get used to it.
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