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Originally posted by DownwardSpiral
I say it's the woman's decision. If she dosen't want a baby she shouldent be forced to have one, only to give it up for adoption. It would be easier on the mother to stop it before it's born, because once that baby comes out she may grow attached to it, and if she gives it up right away that will tear her apart inside. If she wants the abortion let her, her call.
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While I see the logic in your statement I have to acknowledge the possibility that I think she would feel even worse if she terminated the life before it even happens than to birth it and give it away. Because if she births it and gives it away....she can always see it again anyway....because even before it's born they are already somewhat attached to it once they know they have one whether they can provide for it or not. I don't think any of them actually
want to terminate it. I think they just feel that they have to...which is sad. Either way they are going to feel a great deal of sadness with their decision but at least with one....there is actually the possibility of a second chance there.
Asta!!