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it's hard to get over the fact that first relationships do kind of set the standards for other relationships to come. our past experiences, after all, are part of who we are today. but you have to understand that not everyone treats a relationship the same or acts the same. some may not be comfortable with pda as much as others, some aren't as adventurous in bed, etc. but you have to set all of that aside if you really love this current girl. it doesn't matter what experiences you've had in the past, if she's worth it, don't let something as silly as this get in the way. maybe your ex spoiled or pampered you too much. not all girls are like that. get over it. and just be happy.
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anais Nin
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