This helps with many an insecure male im sure. gives one a leg up if they need it. i dunno, in my experience, just get some self confidence, and the world is your fruitbasket. dont need to brand intelligence and heart as wussy, those attributes are fine and dandy. just need to, as Plan9 has said countless times, have an excellent self image and the rest will follow. Collapse in on yourself worrying about rejection and youre screwed for as long as you want to be. i would know
