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Re: Cuddling vs. Intercourse
Hey just take it slow. Cuddle with her and rub her neck and if the sex happens it happens but let her take charge. went thru this a few years ago. I've been married 18 years. my kids are 16 and 13 now. One thing to try is take her away for a weekend for Two. And get to know each other again
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Originally posted by mb99usa
This question is more for the ladies but men feel free to chime in as well.
Here's a little background:
My wife and I have been together for over 7 years, married for almost 4. Since we've had kids the amount of sexual intercourse we have has dropped off. She stays home with the kids and has some very stressful days with them. Thay are both under 3. Lately she has wanted to spend more time cuddling than having sex. I love cuddling with her and have no problem doing so. I would like to see a little more action in the sack though. We have not had intercourse in over a month. There have been plenty of rolling around, cuddling, fondling sessions, but none where the act was completed.
She says it is nothing to do with me and that she stills wants me, just that sex is more important to me than her. I can agree with this but I still feel it is somewhat a reflection of her feelings toward me.
Is anyone else experiencing this?
Has anyone overcome it?
Should I confront her about it or just try to be more intimate and let things lead where they may?
Could I be pressuring her too much?
Thanks in advance.
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