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Originally posted by K-Wise
Oh and thank you for trying to be civil about it. Now let me give you a hypothetical situation.....say you leave for work or for the weekend and you decide not to lock up your house or set your alarm system or anything and you return home to find all of your belongings stolen from you. Now though it's very hurtful and upsetting....all around pretty traumatic for you, wouldn't you have to admit to yourself that maybe you were just a little too careless and that maybe some of it was in part your fault? Now like I said if she had no control over it it's very sad and no fault is hers at all but if the rape was the result of carelessness on the womans part it could have been avoided and a life wouldn't have ever had to be destroyed that would have never had to been in the first place had a little bit more care been taken. Of course it's sad and very heartwrecking for the woman especially and the man who has to help them cope but I say things like that because they need to learn....and need to take life more seriously and be more careful with it too because you only get one....and you can't go back and change something once it's done it's done. You understand where I'm going with this right? I'm not trying to be insensitive or callous. I know I'd feel aweful if I had to consult a rape victim and I would try to comfort them in any way possible but sugar coating, beating around the bush, failing to except responsibility, etc. are not going to and will not ever help the problem any. Why do you think parents talk to us and place so much importance on not going to unsafe places, being careful, not doing drugs, always using protection, saving yourself, etc. ? It's because they'd like to protect us from having such hardships in life as best as they can....because they care and they are good parents. We all know they can't protect us from everything so we have to learn to protect ourselves, take precautions, and hopefully we won't have to be placed in a situation where we are helpless. Once again I'm not trying to offend anyone but admit it......I'm at least 50% right about most of this wouldn't you agree?
Asta!!
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