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Originally posted by Johnny Rotten
There are girls around every corner that can make you feel happy.
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heh, yeah, but they usually charge money
j/k. It's pretty hard for me right now to go meet people because I've just moved to a new city and don't have a large enough income to go out and have a relatively decent social life where I can start meeting people. I also work from home so meeting others at the workplace is too hard too. *stares out his window*
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Originally posted by analog
She was your first- is she still your only? If that's the case, you're just stuck on her mentally because she means comfort to you, she's familiar (mentally, not as in "a friend") to you. You're also getting grumpy because you're feeling jealousy when you have no right to be jealous- not to say you're not human for feeling that way, but- she's not your girlfriend. What she's done with other guys is not your concern, nor is it any of your business, and you need to be able to face that to get over this.
If you haven't been with any other girls, why not? Go do that. Be her friend, but stay a friend. Or, just fuckin talk to her and see where she stands with you two. She may be employing jealousy tactics to make you want to get back with her. Girls are fuckin CRAZY with that sometimes.
Good luck, let us know.
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This girl was my first, but after we broke up, I was with a number of other girls over the last three years. I never really found that attachment with any of them (save for one), and I think that's what is causing me the problem. But I'll keep you all informed of how things are going and where I go down this so called road of life.