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strcrssd · 10-26-2003, 02:19 AM

From my limited experience, I'd suggest doing extensive reading in advance.

However, you will probably still not know exactly what is where on her...Ask her to help you. I think it is vitally important to open the lines of communication when you two are messing around. If you don't know what feels good to her, you aren't going to continue doing it. I found out from an ex-girlfriend of mine that apparently I used to kiss poorly, but she never brought that up when we were dating. Something similar to this could happen during your playtime. Again, open the lines of communication...."like the weather channel, constant updates." If she is not comfortable talking about it, then she probably shouldn't be doing it.

Again, I think it would be best if you do both the suggestions above. Become informed and as her to keep you informed in real-time.

10-26-2003, 02:19 AM	#7 (permalink)
strcrssd Insane Location: Rio Grande Valley, Texas	From my limited experience, I'd suggest doing extensive reading in advance. However, you will probably still not know exactly what is where on her...Ask her to help you. I think it is vitally important to open the lines of communication when you two are messing around. If you don't know what feels good to her, you aren't going to continue doing it. I found out from an ex-girlfriend of mine that apparently I used to kiss poorly, but she never brought that up when we were dating. Something similar to this could happen during your playtime. Again, open the lines of communication...."like the weather channel, constant updates." If she is not comfortable talking about it, then she probably shouldn't be doing it. Again, I think it would be best if you do both the suggestions above. Become informed and as her to keep you informed in real-time. __________________ "I can't understand why people are frightened of new ideas. I'm frightened of the old ones." -- John Cage (1912 - 1992)