gee, thanks for the quick replies.
numist, thanks for heads up on what it will be like for her.
fishstick, i'd never thought of it like that, thanks. i'm still unsure about which avenue i'll take after what you said.
i dont feel self concious about not having any experience at all, doesnt phase me in the slightest. i've had my final year of school to keep me busy enough, just so happened i came across this girl at work, and we decided to take it outside the workplace. j