I am HIGHLY pro-life. I deep down in my heart believe that abortion is murder...because thats what it is as hard as it is to accept.
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Originally posted by ninety09
I'm pro-choice.
If some people are stupid enough to have unprotected sex, they will most likely be lousy parents.. an abortion would be better.
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I'm gonna have to respectfully disagree with that statement. Killing the child does not make it better off. Adoption does. I don't see how never allowing the child to ever be (breathe, think, decide, learn, love, etc.) is making it better off? It's selfishness is all it is, it's them (the parents) trying to convenience themselves and make themselves "better off" not the child. I think this whole philosophy of "Oh it's her body it's her choice" is bullshit. It was her choice whether or not to have unprotected sex or not....not whether or not a child should live or die. I highly agree with the government being able to make these decisions....because the child himself can not and it should be their decision whether they live or die not their irresponsible parents decision and since they can't decide for themselves the government should be allowed to do that for them because if they could, they would want to live and they would choose to live if it were possible. Do you people even know how an abortion is performed? They drill a hole into the childs heads and suck out all of it's brain tissue...then after that it's thrown into embalming fluid or a trash can. Theres no respectability and dignity to their departure. They aren't burried or cremated like many of you would like to be when you die. Now in the case of empregnation as the result of a rape I'm torn....it's a very sensitive subject because they of course had no choice or say in the matter of course not every situation is the same....in the event of them walking alone and a total stranger jumping out of the bushes and forcing themselves upon the woman I would be extremely sensitive to their needs...I of course would want the child to live out of my own personal compassion but she shouldn't have to be forced in that situation and I believe the law should provide some sort of exception in these cases. However, many times rape is the result of the woman being somewhere they know better than to be. Like sneaking out of their parents house with their boyfriend when they know they shouldn't with the intention of having sex and then getting second thoughts and ending up being raped. Though I feel remorse for them they should have known better than to do that and some of the fault is theirs though not entirely theirs. Also if they decide to go to a party and get completely shit faced and pass out and get raped that way....Thats why you shouldn't go and get drunk! Thats why you don't go out and be in a private place with a man you know you can't trust yet! I mean if you think you know them well then it's not your fault at all, not even in the slightest but if not then take some responsibility when need be. Also do you know that the majority of these pregnancies as the result of rape happen because the victim fails to report the rape on time before they have any chance to perform any preventative procedures on the victims? I mean I undestand you've been through a tramatic experiance but you aren't doing anyone (including yourself) any benefit by not reporting these rapes when they occur and on top of the offenders being allowed to roam the streets and rape again terminating a life as well. I might seem a tad bold and cold-hearted in these statements but you have to agree with me on some of these. Because it's not just any little thing it's a life. A life that should be taken seriously. I can't stand these women who have sex and sex and sex and then get pregnant and cry and cry because they couldn't provide for it or they don't want to provide and care for it and then try and make you feel sorry for them. Bullshit no fuckin way sister you'll get no sympathy from me what so ever! Thats what you get thats why you shouldn't be having unprotected sex when you know the consequences. Those women make me sick....especially some who've had several abortions...who the hell do you think you are? I do apologize if I have offended anyone with my statements but I am very sensitive about this subject and that is how I truely feel and nothing anyone can say or do could change my mind about that. And if you're the father and you're pressuring your wife/gf to have an abortion be a fuckin man and except your responsibility!
Asta!!
EDIT: I also forgot to mention the case of a birth being terminal. In which case the baby could be born but the mother would die...I don't know if I have a complete and firm opinion about this I just know that if I were the husband it would be deeply painful having to part either and I guess thats all I'll say about that.