I went through something very similar to this myself when I joined the Army. I found out that while I was gone, the girl I had been dating before I joined, a girl I was truly in love with, had started to see someone else while I was in training for my job. I hated her for this and broke off any bond we had for a long while. The reason I hated her for it was I was still in love with her but knew I couldn't be with her after what she had done. However, about 8 months ago when I got deployed to Iraq she started writing me emails telling me that what she did was wrong and how she really wished she hadn't done it and wanted to get back with me. Deep down I really wanted to just say yes and that I would be with her when I got back, but I sat on it for a while without writing her back. I'm really glad I did because it helped me to realize that I was really just trying to hold onto the feelings I had with her when we were still together, and that I should just keep our relationship in the friend status.
My advice to you, keep talking to her. See how things go after a long period of time and then make your decision based on your heart. Just don't rush into getting hurt again.
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