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Over the years I have noticed that my girlfriends that are healthy emotionally, spiritually, and sexually are the friends that share about their sexuality. We are extremely open with one another -- sharing thoughts, ideas, experiences, and fantasies. I do not think that is preverted in the way you mean! I am grateful for these relationships as they let me know that I am "okay." With the shift in society from the way woman were viewed in the past, to the way we are viewed today, this kind of mutual support is needed.
I still remember my mother telling me that sex is "something that must be tolerated" and talking about how my father wanted her to do some really preverted things such as "kiss him, well, you know where." Through our open, "perverted" conversations, my girlfriends (and Lebell) have helped me learn to accept and embrace my sexuality. I am thankful for all the perveted, slutty woman (and men) of the world!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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