Ok, well first off I think you need to move on from the twins
. Count that experience as a good learning one to teach you exactly what not to do. There are plenty more women out there that you will be able to chase that fortunatly don't have a clue that you basically made yourself look like a psychopathic stalker with the twins
(I know you aren't, but you did a good job of playing the role
). Don't get hung up on the ones that are too hard to get. Not only are they not worth it in the long run, but even when you finally do get to be with them you will always have the insecurity of knowing that you had to basically force yourself upon them. I, for one, enjoy want to feel like they are the ones trying to be with me as well, otherwise it isn't worth my time.
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The thing about having balls, which Plan9 has not yet pointed out, is that it requires lack of thought. You DO NOT think about it before doing it. Don't spend the night before planning it out. You know what this will do? You'll end up finding tons of reasons why it isn't worth it and why you shouldn't even bother, and all that jive. That's the LAST thing you want. DON'T think about it. If it doesn't turn out cool, then phuk it, move on, or try again. Just don't mope. It's not that bad, trust me.
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Ok, here is where you are mistaken. To be a true pro at this you have to have CONFIDENCE. It can't be fake, you have truely believe that you can make any girl feel great inside. That these girls lives are better because they just met you. If you want to see physical examples of this, just watch the guys at your school who get all the hot girls. They have this mentality down, with out even knowing it. That being said, it has nothing to do with "lack of thought" and everything to do with "thinking positive". I cannot stress how important confidence is and how much women are attracted to it.