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Analog has it right. This is mostly mental. When my wife is coming off her period, she is not only a bit tighter, but a bit dryer. I'm fully aware that sex can hurt her during this if we don't take it slow and careful. This admittedly throws me off my game a bit as I'm a bit concerned about whether she is enjoying it, and I can lose my erection if I'm not fully aroused. The way we have found around it is to really stretch out foreplay. This has two benefits. First, she gets over her dry problems pretty easily, and two, I'm so turned on that I'm not about to lose my erection.
Yeast infections can cause dryness, and it just may be that you can physically tell this and it worries/bothers you on some level. Try extra foreplay and see if that helps.
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