When ever someone asks this question, I think of a song by Micheal Penn that contains these lines:
"I'd rather feel the heat of August
then be sheltered and numb"
Couldn't agree more. Don't cut yourself off. The pain you may be going through now is much better than the slow gnawing of "What might have been."
Take it from one who knows.
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Howard Moon: The wind is my only friend.
Wind: [whistling] I hate you.
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