I have gone without for over a year. I became sexually active in high school and then went to college and could just not meet anyone. It was 14 months, and I frankly didn't miss it much till I met someone and had sex again. However that being said, now that I am a little older I realize that it isn't sex per se that I miss. If I have a physical urge and can't relive it with intercourse, I masturbate. What I would miss about sex is the intimacy and the intensity of the connection with someone else. Take that person or the ability to meet a person that you could connect with, and I wouldn't be as interested. This wasn't the case when I was still driven by my hormones in my 20s but sure is in my 30s.
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