It obviously varies alot girl to girl; alot of you have talked about lightly licking the clit, but for my current girlfriend it really comes down to using about as much force as I can put into my tongue (and I've definitely developed some new strength in that area in the time we've been together). However, before you even get to driving her to the finish line play around a little, nibble where you feel like it, stick your tongue up in her, run your hands around. Even after you've started going for the clit don't just do that, occasionally lick down, put your tongue in her, play around (tease her some :P ), stick a finger or two in her, and if you're both in to it you can use a finger for a little anal play while you're at it.
Basically vary it up, pay attention to her cues, and be creative.
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